Let’s be honest—most of us love spoiling our pets. Whether it’s extra treats, cuddles on the couch, or new toys “just because,” they’re family, and it’s hard to say no. But too much of a good thing (without structure) can lead to habits that are hard to break. Here’s how to keep your pet happy, engaged, and mentally healthy — while preventing demanding or entitled behaviour patterns.

Start with Some House Rules

Your pet doesn’t need a strict routine, but some boundaries go a long way. Whether that means keeping them off the bed or teaching them to wait for meals, consistency is what counts. Training tools like a clicker or treat pouch are great for positive reinforcement, and a pet gate can help define your personal space, allow for “time-outs”, & set clear boundaries in a gentle way.

Rewards for “Good Job” Moments

It’s easy to hand over a treat just for being cute (we totally get it!), but saving special treats for reinforcing good behaviour helps your pet understand when they’re doing something right. Keep something simple and satisfying on hand like SmartBones for dogs, made with wholesome ingredients including vegetables and real chicken, or Benny Bully’s Liver Chops for cats, a pure and natural alternative to traditional treats. These treats give positive reinforcement they’ll actually learn from and love - while providing high quality nutrition at the same time!

Mix Up the Toy Bin

Rather than leaving all their toys out at once, try rotating a few engaging, durable options one or two at a time to keep things fresh, exciting, and mentally stimulating for your cat or dog. This approach not only prevents boredom or “hoarding”, but also encourages deeper focus and more enriching play. For dogs who love to chew, the KONG Biscuit Ball provides long-lasting entertainment with the added reward of a treat tucked inside.

For cats, the KONG Play Spaces Rave Cave offers a cozy hideout that taps into their natural instincts to burrow, hide, and play. With a simple set up and tear down, a sparkly disco ball for batting & attacking, a “Rave Mode” to really get the party going, and a super-stimulating crinkly floor, this cat toy has it all for both solo and interactive play! And for moments when they need something to keep them calm and focused, the KONG Licks Spinz is a great puzzle-style feeder toy for both dogs and cats. It encourages licking and promotes slower eating, which has been shown to naturally reduce anxiety in pets, offering soothing mental stimulation and calming distraction all in one.

The Sweet Spot: Loving Without Overdoing It

Spoiling doesn’t have to mean food or toys. Playtime, brushing, a good walk, or just quiet time together are all ways to connect & bond with your pet without overindulging them. When you do gift them something, make it count—something that supports their wellbeing, reinforces positive behaviours, and feels like a treat.

At the end of the day, it’s not about saying “no” to the good stuff—it’s about offering it with a little intention. When your pet understands the routine and boundaries, they’re more secure, more settled, and honestly? Even more fun to be around.

The Right Way to Spoil Your Pet